How we perceive beauty Not only influences who we are attracted to but also how we are treated and how we treat others. The society having set up beauty standards of perfection then we can argue out that beauty standards are for sure hold a great percentage of importance. Beauty is not everything but trust me it really helps in one way or the other
Thinking about it, the days that I walk out of the house looking like a homeless person makes me treated differently. I ma treated differently because my skin is blotchy and didn’t wear my make up. I am certainly not less worthy but you will hear someone ask ‘are you okay’more oftenly. Well believe it or not how we look really matters in one way or the other.
Well,. Yes beauty is not everything. Some people have managed to achieve what most people admire like the university graduates from those big universities overseas. They may be termed as lucky for having the brains but trust you me graduating from such a university looking plain comes with some few added disadvantages.
We should all love ourselves and appreciate who we are but the society does not give us a break by setting up it’s standards. You we all have those insecurities that we want to cover from being noticed not even a little. Those insecurities won’t just disappear by some one appealing that you are beautiful. Actions are needed. This is why no woman should be judged for changing the way she looks. I believe that we should be free to change what they dislike without criticism from this who are previledged to be on vogue cover page.
A woman doing make up or opting for plastic surgery to look young should not be judged. All they want is to fit in what the society terms as beauty. I’m pretty sure no one struggling with weight would want to hear ” just accept it” from someone who is petite. Of course no pregnant woman trying to Get back to her initial body would want to hear”you’ll eventually bounce back” from a woman who has a flat tummy. No, not at all.
We should be free to change our looks to how we want them. No one should judge you for putting on make up to cover acne or going for breast implant because you feel that your boobs are small. Me changing my hair color or having make up on does not mean I hate my self it means that I love my self but in a different way. I don’t think anyone should have the energy to talk trash about any one struggling to meet their own beauty standards.
I don’t know if I should entirely blame the society for putting up the high standards. All I know is that focusing on appearance brings up unwanted issues like low self esteem, depression and also eating disorders. Therefore we should acknowledge that beauty really matters and most people are struggling with what beauty means to them.
You know there are those who are lucky to wake up looking flawless. Well some of us need some eyeliner and mascara to feel on top of the world. So before anyone gains the courage to judge anyone, for changing how they look they should sit down and first check their own previledged.
Feeling pretty 